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Contents
picking up girls
How to appear more attractive to girls
relationship and dating guide

picking up girls

While kicking game to woman, constantly repeat her name, it's like music to their ears. For example "So where are you from, Heather?" instead of "Where are you from?".

Never appear to be intimidated by a woman, even if you are. Beautiful women are used to men being intimidated by them and ONLY find the men who aren't to be attractive.

Never talk negatively about your life or your job. Though our motives may be different, women are ultimately searching for a companion, and why would she want to share her life with someone that is not satified with their own. Never talk negatively about an ex girlfriend either, which is a very common mistake.

When asked what you plan to do with your life, or what you are currently doing to improve yourself, always show great ambition. Women are extremely attracted to ambitious men, because when you explain your high goals and plans for yourself, she will be thinking "Maybe this guy will be rich someday".

Ever wonder why you never leave a club with a woman you've just met? Women at clubs tend to be 100% more attracted to the men on the dance floor, even if they don't dance well or are less attractive than the men sitting/standing around. Learn to dance!

Never look at the ground or at your shoes while talking to a woman. This is a sign of insecurity (which women are turned off by) and they will pick up on this, even if only subconsiously.

Knowledge is power. Always listen to and observe everything, including others conversations. If you observe a woman before you approach, you may notice something she is doing, wearing, or talking about which in-a-way "tells you" what to say when you try to spark up a conversation with her.

This is a no-brainer: Never call the next day. You will appear to be desperate with nothing better to do. You want to project that you are "in demand" and that you are busy (which will make you seem exciting, fun, and mysterious).

Never try to impress her by telling her about what you have or have done, you will come off as bragging, and women hate that. Actions speak much louder than words.

Never bring up your ex-girlfriend(s) unless they ask you. It is usually a bad topic of conversation (especially for a woman you've just met) and you should try to avoid it as much as possible. If however, you are stuck and must speak about your ex, say something nice about her/them and quickly change the subject.

Make as many women friends as possible, especially unattractive ones. They always have hot friends and if you don't already know, a woman's opinion of you will be greatly effected by what their friends say. Make friends with her and friends and you'll be in there like swimwear

SMILE. Remember to smile constantly, while your talking, while your observing, while your doing just about anything. I can not stress this rule enough, smiling is the most powerful weapon in any player's arsenel. It let's the women know that your probably a fun guy to be around and someone they would like to know or be involved with. This single rule alone can improve your success with women by over 100%, use it wisely.

When rejected, just smile and don't let it bother you. Who cares what she thinks, you probably won't see her again anyway. Besides, it's her loss, she just missed out on a good time for free with a great guy. Go out looking to get rejected, because once you become comfortable with girls saying no, your fear of rejection will be gone. Remember that the player who gets rejected the most is the player who leaves with the most numbers!

Never say "How about giving me your number?". Always use something like "I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you at?". This always produces much better results because she must aviod saying "no" or she will sound stupid because that will mean there is not a number she can be reached at. It also makes you more original than every other idiot that asks for her number.

Be aware of her mood before approaching. If she is in a bad mood your chances of success are drastically less than if she was in a good mood. Do not try to cheer her up either, you may be able to make her feel slightly better if you are funny, but she will relate you to the bad feelings subconciously, which is not a good thing in the long run.

Always compliment women and they will always feel good about you, but don't overdue it or they will think your just trying to score points (which you are, but you don't want them to know that). Try to sound sincere and give her a unique compliment that most people will overlook. To learn more about complimenting women check out my article entitled Flattery will get you everywhere!

Never try to become a "friend" when you first meet a girl. You must show her that you are attracted to her and would like to persue a romantic relationship right away, because once your dropped into the "friends" category, it's next to impossible to get out.

While at a club, never attempt to approach women as you would in any other setting. Simply begin to dance and they will come to you, introductions and all that can be done later. This has proved to be the most effective tactic to use when trying to meet women in nightclubs, but in order to utilize it you must first learn to dance! The good news is, you don't have to dance well to attract women, it's not how you dance that attracts them, it's the confidence you display when you get out on the dance floor.

Never talk about how cool, mean, bad, tough, or strong you are. If she thinks that you are full of yourself, you will go home and fool with yourself, catch my drift?

Never talk too much or bring up subjects that will be boring to her, let her initiate the topics of discussion and do most of the talking while you simply relate yourself to her statements by saying things like "me too". This will make the two of you seem to have alot in common and her opinion of you will shoot through the roof.

Quit worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on listening. She will give you leads as to what she would like to talk about, in essence, telling you want to say next. For example: you say "How are you doing?" she says "I got a 50 cent raise today, but then I got a flat tire on my way home from work, so I guess I'm doing alright". She just gave you two leads that hint at what she is willing to talk about, all you've got to do is pick one.

Be careful about what you say about yourself. Never say "I suck at..." or "I can't do that". Always speak positively about yourself. Your supposed to be acting confident remember?

When going to a club or bar in search of women, bring a female friend instead of going with your boys. This will give everyone the idea that you are already taken, and men that are already taking are almost twice as appealing to women than single men. By the time you talk to a girl and she realizes that your actually not taken, the damage is already done, and her hightened opinion of you will remain.

Tell her a joke, because jokes stick in your head. Each time she thinks about the joke she will think about you, and the more she thinks about you the better your chances are.

When deciding whether or not to approach a particular woman, just assume that she is interested in you and act the same way you would with a woman that you know for a fact is interested in you. This will give you confidence and the woman will pick up on this, in turn making her more attracted to you.

Never approach a woman the minute she arrives at the bar, club, or party. If you do, you are doomed for failure. Instead, give her time to get used to the new surroundings while you observe her and wait for the right time to make your approach.

If you get rejected, take a break for a few minutes before approaching another woman, because most women will be insulted if they think that they are your second choice. The scene at a club or bar is constantly changing, so you only need to wait for a short period of time before approaching another woman. Chances are she won't remember you talking to the other girl if you wait awile (if she even noticed in the first place).

How to become more attractive to girls

Variety is the key, switch up your hair style, cologne, and outfits on a regular basis. Women love men that that can not predict. You don't want to be viewed as being boring, do you?

Always wear nice shoes. As men we may not notice anyone else's shoes, or care what ours look like. However I can assure you that women do notice and this can be just the edge that you need.

Always wear cologne, and I'm not talking about cheap cologne like Preffered Stock.

Women are attracted to couragous men, so never appear to be afraid of anything. If you are a wuss and you can't help it, I suggest avoiding situations that may produce confrontations, etc.

Always iron your clothes before you go out. Better than that, iron your clothes before you go anywhere, you never know who you'll run into. Having wrinkles in your clothes can greatly effect how attractive women find you, why do you think women find gay men so attractive?

While at a bar or nightclub, observe what type of clothes other men that are successful with the ladies are wearing, this will give you a general idea of what to wear. I can't tell you exactly what to wear, because fashions tend to be different in other areas/citys, but one simple rule to remember is: Dress to impress, always try to over-dress for the occasion. Women almost always assume that the best dressed men in the building are the most successful/highest paid.

Develop a slightly arrogant, upright walk. Your walk greatly reflects on how confident you are, and women love confidence. Plus always remember to keep your chest out and shoulders back, this will make you appear to be wider and stronger than you actually are.

Always have breath mints or gum on you at all times. If you are talking to a woman and she smells bad breath, this will pretty much ruin your chances of EVER getting a kiss from her.

Relationships and dating guide

When asked "What are you doing?" never reply with "Nothing", always appear to be busy even if you are not. This will make you seem to be much more interesting.

Never stay on the phone for a long period of time (unless a serious relationship has already been established) or you will appear to be a boring person because you have nothing better to do.

Never act submissive because you want to be the "Nice Guy". In the real world (outside of Hollywood) nice guys don't get the girls, so stand up for yourself and don't get used. However, don't become the "Jerk" either, the goal is to be likable while also showing strength by always expressing yourself and your opinions.

Never, and I mean never, say "I love you" first. If you say these 3 words too early you can easily change a great relationship into an uncomfortable one (for the both of you), and possibly destroy it.

Always keep things happening in your existing relationship. Try new things (not only sexually) and never become lazy by just sitting around watching TV every night. If your girl becomes bored with the relationship she will leave or cheat on you. Remember "It's easier to steal someone else's girl than it is to keep your own!"

Never act serious at the beggining of a new relationship. You may begin to develop strong feelings early on, but you don't want to scare your dream girl away by coming on too strong. Just try to relax and have fun while allowing your relationship to blossom at a steady (but slow) pace.

When going on a first date, never go to a club or movie because you want to spend this time talking to her and using the player skills you've learned, which can be limited once you go to these places. Take her somewhere fun (during the daytime, such as miniture golf, the beach, etc.). This will lighten the tention and make both of you more comfortable.

Never attempt to have sex with her unless you know (for sure) that it's yours for the taking. If you try and fail, chances are she will be extremely uncomfortable around you the next time you get together, and probably never return your calls or avoid you completely.

Always change the amounts of attention you give her. For instance: Give her your undivided attention for an extended period of time one day, and appear to be too busy to even talk to her the next. This will drive her crazy, and you will be on her mind the entire day. She will be wondering if she said or did something wrong, and she will become much more interested in you because she won't be able to think about anything else.

Once you are in an established relationship for a relatively long period of time say this to your girl: "You know, your probably my best friend". She will most likely burst into tears and will love you twice as much for saying it. *note* Make sure you say this at the right time. For example, saying this while shopping at the mall would be a bad idea, but saying it late at night while your laying in bed would be on point like a fax machine.

Never bring a woman to a really expensive restaurant for any of the first few dates. You may think that you are impressing her, but all you are really doing is adding to the tension.

Never... ever... borrow money from a woman. Even if she is a long term girlfriend and you need it badly. Women want a man that can support them in any situation. In a woman's mind "For rich or for poor" actually means "You better get rich, and if your poor I'm gone". If you borrow money she will be thinking "Hows he going to support me when he can't even take care of himself". Never let her know if your in financial trouble.

Never become obsessed with a particular woman you've just met, no matter how hot she is or how much she seems to like you. If you think about her too much, you will begin building up tention in your mind which can effect how you act the next time you see her, and that is when you want to be on top of your game, not looking like an idiot with nothing to say.

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