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General rules

Contents
The 3 seconds rule - say NO to hesitation.
Be the Alpha/Dominant male
Do my looks matter? - yes but not all
Nice guys vs jerks - the key difference between the two explained.
Good traits to have - or develop, to be a successful player.
It all comes down to satisfaction - read why you actually have the upper hand with the most beautiful of women.
Women want good sex - so make sure you do her right:)
Should you express or contain your sexual desires? - a moot point, read why.
Wanna play the dating game? - ... um... let's see now...

The 3 seconds rule

Even if you really cannot think of anything to initiate a conversation with a girl, whatever you do, don't break the 3s rule! Act in 3 seconds nevertheless, even if you have no idea, how to continue. In three seconds, you have no time to become sweaty, trembling, stuttering.It leaves a good first impression of you as a confident and spontaneous man, her feelings for you were positive from the start, which helps while having a conversation with her.

ASF: "The worst part of not using the 3s rule is when the girl sees you hesitating."

Be the Alpha/Dominant male

I'm saying be the guy who gets laid. That guy is confident that he's going to get laid, because he knows he's an alpha male. He knows that women and people in general want to be with him so he doesn't shy away from conversation and meeting new people. He doesn't worry what others think about him when he's doing his thing. He takes control of a situation with authority. He knows he's fun to be with because he is always having a good time and therefore he _is_ fun to be with.

Being the alpha male is all about attitude and projecting the image that you are fun to be with and the woman should want to be with you.

Woman get their juices flowing when they are in the presence of a MAN who is living the dominant one.You have to be the MAN who has all the sexual power. when a woman (no matter how hot) sees and feels the presence of a man whom she recognizes as the dominant one while SHE isn't, she does SURRENDERS to the man.

Do my looks matter?

Men judge women primarily by their looks - face, hair, eyes,tits and ass Anyway, more than anything else it is looks that turns us on… and also what turns us off. So its only natural that we think the same works for women.

Women however attribute much less importance to how a man looks as opposed to how the man can make her feel - patterns, value-eliciting. Good looks - the right face, body, clothes - will get you an audition with a woman much more easily. But ONLY an audition. From that point on it all still boils down to how you can make her feel. So yes, you'll get more auditions the better you look, but its your ability to make the girls feel sparkles, tingles deep inside that makes them want you, not your looks.

Nice guys vs jerks

The debate of nice guys vs jerks is one of the oldest of relationships and seduction issues. The essence of being a "nice guy" however is widely misunderstood. It is believed, that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic etc is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus should be avoided, as it is the "jerk", the rude, the inconsiderate, he impolite, the rough guy who always gets to shag the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand... and waiting... and waiting...:)

It doesn't however mean, that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define, what makes the "jerks" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls. It is sexuality - the "jerks" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while for the "nice guys" hiding their sexuality is part of their agenda of being friendly, polite and and courtious towards women.

Peta, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter: In short Women fall for bastards because they don't turn off the sexuality

Good traits to have/develop to be a successful player

According to some PUAs, women obviously want a man with these most important traits:
confidence
humour
smile
well groomed / good looks
ability to create an emotional connection / a feeling of romance

In addition to that, being a successful player includes:
being patient
being persistent
being comfortable just going up and talking to a new woman
finding opportunities in situations where you before did not believe there would be
being sensitive to how she feels/responds and modifying your approach accordingly
knowing how to talk to a woman to build more rapport with her
knowing how to talk to a woman to make her start thinking in romantic directions

Having mastered all of the above, these will add the final touch:
mirror her physically
notice her trance words, remember and use them
rephrase everything she says and feed it back to her
anchor all good feelings
don't argue with her, be very understanding, deeply understanding - this can help create an immense rapport
use presuppositions to direct her actions
have and keep good eye contact - also helps to create an immense rapport
touch her
and always start with the cutest girl around

It all comes down to satisfaction

ASF: "It doesn't matter HOW good she looks... she WANTS to cum and YOU can make it happen. You can make her cum anytime you want to and you know this. Let her know it too by the way you look at her... That is exactly what the 9-10's out there NEED. They get guys who come too soon, fawn over and smother her. Basically they (the 9-10s) don't get regularly or don't ever get what they REALLY NEED AND DESERVE. Granted it is a little harder work to overcome years of those women's' tiny and non-existent sexual satisfaction, but YOU are the MAN to deliver it."

Women want good sex and romance

Don Diebel: "Women don't want just sex - they want good sex and romance. Women's desires are much greater than most men realise. But, unlike men, who are mostly just after sex, women are looking for great sexual experiences. Women are very discriminating and choosy in picking sexual partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that sexually arouses them and/or promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed." Women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special. But women know that good sex is hard to find - once they have it, they will not let go easily:)"

So make sure that when you do her, you do her right:)

Should you express or contain your sexual desires?

The whole point of seduction is to make the girl want you… really bad

"Don't rush things sexually with single women. Appear as if you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved. The first example in this section of ending a date before she does, is a great way to accomplish this. Also, if the mood, the time, the place isn't right, or it feels the slightest bit awkward, don't try kissing her for the first time. If she's interested, the time and place will come.by pushing it, you risk coming off as being desperate for action.Don't be afraid to wait until the time is right."

But on the whole, as the point of seduction is to make the girls finally want to almost rape you, YOUR sexual desires should never even be a subject of discussion:)

Wanna play the dating game?

Actually, dates should be an exclusive reward and privilege of those girls that you're already sleeping with. But if you still decide to take her on a date before that… don't make it a date, say that you'll just get together. And make sure she pays for her coffee/drink/food. If she refuses, eject her - she was only interested in a chump who would buy her food/drinks. You can however suggest paying for rounds of beer/coffee in turns - for example, you'll pay for the first round, she the second etc.

End the date before she does. You've gone to a movie and are now having a bite to eat at a restaurant make sure she pays for her movie and for her meal; you don't want to be wasting your money until she has expressed her interest in you in a most convincing fashion - has had sex with you. Instead of letting the date drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home, maintain control of the evening .

If a girl wants to have sex with you, she will let you know.So if you haven't gotten these vibes, end the date while it's still going well but in fact if you haven't gotten those vibes in spite of all your advanced seduction attempts, you should have ejected her a long time ago.You'll set yourself apart from the other guys she's used to no you won't - they didn't get any and neither did you. You demonstrate that you are not easy to get.

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