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Flirting tips
Conversation tipstips
Behaviour tips
User submitted tips

The Flirting Tips

This is one of my favorite tricks to use in order to get that "first kiss" without all of the anticipation and awkwardness. Simply do the following, but make sure she has warmed up to you first, or she may get pissed: Ask her if she likes surprises, if she says yes... kiss her. If she says no, kiss her anyway, and then say "My bad, I forgot you didn't like surprises".

Tease her with attention. While you are macking on a particular girl, go away after you've talked for a while and begin talking to someone else. Try to make it a male friend you go talk to, or she will think your a player... (let's make that OUR secret, ok?). This will drive her crazy, and if you've made a decent impression on her, she won't be able to think of anything except you... and when your going to come back. Some of the bolder females out there may even come and butt into your new conversation. However, if she does not, go back after a short period of time and you will find her most happy that you did.

Once you think she feels comfortable around you, and if it would be appropriate given the current situation, ask her if she is ticklish. If she answers yes or maybe, proceed with the tickling. If she answers no, say "I think your lying" and proceed with the tickling. From my observations, I would say that eight out of ten girls are ticklish. Plus, if she really likes you and is truly not ticklish, she will fake it anyway. Tickling is a very good trick to use because it involves touching, and you should touch her whenever possible. I can't really explain it, but for some reason women respond very well to the touch, as long as it's delivered in a respectful manner

Upon making eye contact with a woman that you are interested in, always smile. I'm not talking about one of those huge "say cheese" smiles, rather a smirk (maybe a little bit more than a smirk) that says "I'm happy you've looked at me". Once smiling, hold the gaze for 1-2 seconds, then look away. After looking away, try to get her to make eye contact with you again, if this happens go over and talk to her, because her second look was your invitation.

While you are talking to a group of girls, always remember to flirt with ALL of them, even the ones that you don't find attractive. This will put them into "competitive mode", in which all of the women will begin to try to win your affection because of your display of interest in each of them. Once this is accomplished you will be able to have your pick out of any of them, because the woman you choose will feel like she is the "winner". Every girl wishes to feel like she is the best looking in her group, and if you help her achieve this goal, you will become her player in shining armor :)

The Conversation Tips

Here is a good opener you can use: Find a woman that you are interested in and when you approach her say "I bet you have a beautiful smile", then smile and wait for her reaction. 99% of the time she will smile back, and when she does say "I knew it" and proceed to start a conversation with her. If she does not offer a reciprocal smile, simply say "I guess not" and walk away.

The guy who gets rejected the most is the guy who will leave with the most numbers! Quit being scared or rejection and just get out there and do it. The trick is to not think about it, if you start thinking "Should I talk to her or not?" then you will talk yourself out of it. Think about it this way, if you talk to her you might have a 50% chance of being rejected and a 50% chance of success, but if you don't talk to her you have a 0% chance of success. If you don't initiate the conversation it will most likely never take place!

Ever get a woman's number, and when she gave it to you it seemed like she was really into you and that everything would go according to plan, but when you call her she makes up an excuse why she does not want to come out on a date? This is because of the fact that out of sight is out of mind. For instance, when a good salesman is trying to sell you something, he will do almost anything to make the sale before you leave, because if you walk out the door he knows that he will never see you again. This works the same way, you must always get her number AND set up a date when you first meet her, in other words... you must "close the sale". So from now on, replace the phrase "Can I get your number?" with "I'd like to take you out sometime, how about Saturday night?" and when she says ok, say "Cool, is there a number I can reach you at?". Trust me, it works like a rubber glock... anywhere, anytime, and every time :)

When you are going to ask a girl out, try this unique trick that will make it much easier for you to do, and the girl much more interested in you: Tell her you are going to ask her out before you actually do. For instance, say something like "I'm going to ask you out, but not right now... I'm not in the mood". The anticipation will drive her nuts, because she has no idea when you are going to ask her out. You will be on her mind 24/7 until you eventually do ask her out, which you should do when she least expects it. You will get a yes almost every time with this technique!

The opening line that you say to a woman when you first make your approach is extremely important, and by now you should know that pick up lines are no good. Try these opening lines that are very effective: "Why are you in such a good mood?" or "Why do you look so down?". Use the proper one based on your observations, and you will be very happy with the results. These lines will usually get her talking, because they demand more than a simple yes or no.
Ever have problems talking to girls in nightclubs just because of the simple fact that you can't hear them very well? If so, I've got a simple method to get around this, and that is to improve your lip reading skills. It sounds harder than it actually is, all you need to do is watch some tv! Next time you are watching some tv shows (familiar shows like Friends or Sienfeld seem to work well) put your tv on mute and try to fingure out what they are talking about. If you do this one time each week for 1-2 hours you will be able to read lips extremely well, this skill requires minimal practice to learn!

First - two deadly questions NOT to ask:
Do not ask, "You want to go out?" it's too open-ended and can lead to awkward follow up conversation.
Do not ask, "What are you doing Friday night?"
It's too vague. It may leave your potential date wondering exactly what you have in mind.
The other person doesn't know if you're just curious about what she/he is doing on Friday night or if you want to do something with them...

Try something along the lines of: "You like to rollerblade? I was thinking of going out to the lake on Saturday. It's great out there. Would you like to go with me?"
Or if you're really uncertain or uncomfortable about getting together - go with a group.Ask the question:
"Hey, there're a bunch of us going bowling on Saturday. Would you like to go?" The operative word here is "us." It immediately takes the pressure off.
Planning activities to do on your date and getting together in a group are good ways to go - especially if you think you or your date might get "tongue-tied." If you're busy or there are a bunch of other people in the conversation, you won't hit awkward silences and won't have to talk all the time if you don't know your date very well.In summary, just remember when you are asking someone out:1) Plan aheadKnow what you are going to say AND what you want to suggest to do on the date.2) Be specific The other person will be much more comfortable if they know exactly what your intentions are and what you want to do. AND try to relax and enjoy yourself - worst case - they'll say they can't go out and you'll find someone else who will. Someone who appreciates you. In other words, if the person you are asking out doesn't have enough insight to recognize what a terrific person you are, then they're just not too bright now, are they?

Behavior Tips

After having a good date with a girl and you are back at her place, try to leave something behind that will remind her of you. Leaving a shirt behind is what I recommend, because it will probably smell like your cologne and the smell will make her think of you. This also gives you an excuse to see her again. When she calls to tell you that you've forgotten something, act like it is no big deal and say that you'll pick it up next time you get together.

Ever have the problem of ejaculating too early while having sex? If so, try this little trick I've found to be very effective in stopping this embarrassing event from happening: While your having sex and you begin to feel like your about to become a one minute man, count silently from 1 to 100, and when you finish start back at 1 again. This effectively takes your mind off sex, which makes you not as aroused. For more tips and secrets like this one, have a look at Robert Irwin's Sexual Mastery, which contains recent scientific and clinical research that has revealed truly new and powerful information and techniques for increasing your (and your partner's) sexual performance and enjoyment.

After you go on a date with a woman you are very interested in, and if you feel that everything on your date went very well, send flowers to her workplace. Women love to show off when a guy they are dating does something romantic for them, and their work is the absolute best place for them to show off. Most women are either good friends or highly competitive with their female co-workers, which is a win-win situation for them when they receive a gift while at work. Chances are she will give you a call the moment she gets the flowers, try it.

If you like to travel and want to go on an unforgettable trip, you may want to consider going to either Costa Rica or the Philippines. Americans are as good as gold in these two exotic locations, and you can literally sleep with four gorgeous native women each night if you wanted to. So when this next spring break comes around, forget about Cancun or Daytona and go have a REAL good time :)

Remember that not only women use body language to send signals to the opposite sex. You may be sending bad vibes to a woman while you are talking to her by your own body language, and you might not even know it! Make sure to keep this in mind while you are reading the Body Language Section of this website.

When you want to give a gift to a girl, try this little trick: Tape a note to the glovebox in your car that says "Open me" and put the gift inside (works well with a single rose). Don't say anything about it once you pick her up and you are riding along in the car, let her find it for herself. Remember to buy some rubbers while you are getting the rose, your gonna need them.

Feed her chocolate! You might not know it, but chocolate is a mild aphrodisiac. This means that chocolate triggers emotions in our mind related to love and attraction. For instance, if a woman is thinking about you while she is eating a hershey's bar, she will feel more attracted to you than she normally would. With this in mind, try to feed her chocolate while you are with her. The best way to accomplish this is: Stop at a gas station to fill up on gas, and when you go inside to pay (don't use credit card outside) come back out with a candy bar and say "I thought you might like this, but if you don't want it I'll eat it".

User Submitted Tips

Here's a real easy tip: when you flirtatiously pick at a girl and call her names to tease her, instead of telling her "just kidding" or "you know I don't really mean it", just let it hang out there as if she is supposed to already know you are kidding. In here mind, she'll know you were just kidding, but she will feel a slight urge to think that you could actually have meant it. This leaves her with a feeling of confussion that works to your advantage and it's sooo easy to use. - submitted by David

The "Think Different" Technique. Allow me to explain (Ahem!) Whenever you find yourself doing the usual thing, the thing everyone expects you to do (Think different!) Think otherwise, try to be fresh, original, creative and most of all, expressive. No girl wants to have a guy thats like everyone else, like any other guy they want someone who they can talk about. So do whatever you gotta do, to be talked about. So, for example this can work in any situation, if you insulted her (she wants an apology) don't tell her you're sorry (if you are) show her, get her something even if it's just a sweet, give her a hug! If she expects you to call her, don't! Show up on her doorstep... if she expects an e-mail, send her a short e-card. Just be that original cat! Na'mean? I feel it works, I think to myself "Think Different" Think how you can throw everything on its head, and be the one that doesn't do the thing to do... you do the things she would never think you'd do. 9/10 women love the creativity... they love being surprised... and it's all good for you... it makes you look unpredictable, and she'll always have to second guess you! Though, it'll make good conversation with her, and her girlfriends... Holler! - submitted by Nise

Listen guys here's the truth. You can play this game and still come out squeeky clean enough to kiss your grandma. You don't even have to lie. Alot of the hot chicks out there want the same thing we do. I always go after the unreal chicks('ya know like the supermodel looking chicks that are always with the rich guys) and noticed a few things. If there are two hot girls guys will flock to them. Understand none of them will talk to the girls they will just stand there and try to look cool. This is a mistake. The other type that will approach is the rich asshole who just drove in, in a Jag. But guess what? They forgot about the wildcard, and that's you. Just go up and start rapping worse case scenario you are envied by all the other losers who did'nt have the guts. The moral of this story is "put up or shut up". Everyone can bullshit there friends into thinking there cool, but you can't lie to yourself. Go get 'em tiger! - submitted by mike in london

A question a lot of my friends asked me, how do i get laid on the first night. Here goes: Well after the great nite of charming, when u about to go home, i would make someone call me, making sure she is next to me and that she can listen to all i have to say. Then i find some excuse to make me sad like parents arguing, something to make her wanna comfort u, then after some talking tell her this with a sad but confident eyes "Can you please be with me tonight?" - submitted by AsianPlayStar

This is a pretty effective site i have to say. But one i have something pretty crutial to add and it works very VERY well. I call this the "read between the lines" tip. To start always pay close attention to what the gurl is telling you in a conversation. If u listen to the way they are saying wut they are saying then you'll find it easier to advance in the conversation. WOMEN LOVE TO TALK so it should be quite easy. And if u play it off right they will think they are in control and that is good because actually u are in control due to them opening up to u.i have more effective tips other than this one, just send me an e-mail and i'll def. hit u up wit some helpful hints and strategies about any thing u need to know about gurls/guyz and relationships. - submitted by SiN

Yo wassup playaz?? Well heres a tip that has worked wonders for me. Im a kind of person who almost always wear a hat or summin. Well wat I usually do before I leave he crib is take some cologne, and a mixture of pheromones, and PCC, and just rub my hands together, and wipe it all in my hair then put my hat on. And when I got to talk to a gurl. After talking to her for a while, and if it seems like shes not interrested in you, just take of your hat. Then you let out all that traped cologne and phromones, she wont know wat hit her. Its like she just been hit by cupid, And then u just have to keep talking to her wif ur new advantage. That my best advise i can give yall fellow playaz. Holla - submitted by PT Playa2300

Alright young'uns Uncle Kev is about to lay down some sure fire tips to help your freak game. Rule #1 If you're in a club and a group of girls are sitting together and none of them are dancing stay away! Fellas this is a no win situation! The chances for you getting a dance is very, very slim. The reason is the fine one won't dance because every square in the club has already asked her and she doesn't want to give the other hoes a complex. Even if you ask the not so fine one she'll still say no because she has an attitude that no one has asked her. Also by saying no it gives her an out to her other friends that she turned someone down too. Rule #2 To get the fine one wait until after midnight to ask her to dance by that time she's tired of those hoes and the squares have already run their best game on her, plus she's ready to get her money's worth for getting in the club. So after midnight walk up to her and hit her with a small smile, holding out both of your hands to her hands, and say dance with me. Once on the floor away from her girlfriends run your mack game to get those digits. Sure fire baby! - submitted by Uncle Kev

I just wanted to recommend a movie for those that haven't seen it; "The Tao of Steve" is an awesome movie in terms of the philosophy of being a player (a "Steve" in the movie). Three main rules: Be desire less, Be excellent, Be gone. -Be desire less: "women can smell agenda." If they sense that you are after sex, and sex alone, (given the girl) you will fail. You must be (or at least seem to be) completely and totally focused on HER, right NOW, not the sex you want later. And if you aren't concentrating on sex, and you actually listen and are actually interested, you will be accomplishing so much more than "Wanna do it?" Plus, she will work extra hard to make you want her, as you won't be giving off the "I gotta have that" vibe. -Be Excellent: Don't be a dipsh!t. Don't be a goof nut. Prove your sexual worthiness (this ties into the "use big words" tip). If a girl thinks that you will be a waste of time because you are boring or a dipsh!t or something, she will not waste her time. You have to prove your worthiness. However you can. -Be gone: a phone number or a date doesn't mean marriage. It is just a phone number or a date. Don't build your life around this girl you've know for 3 hours. Life goes on beyond her, and if she thinks that you are outta there, she will pursue YOU. None of this panting puppy bullsh!t, following her around and phoning every hour. You are a man, act like one. - submitted by NO CATCHY NAME

I just had to share this with you guy's, There is this girl I've been making eye contact with over a number of weeks, and the last time we passed each other she totally ignored me as if to say I'm tired of waiting for you to talk to me. Well I was waiting for that all important ice breaking moment and today it finally happened, I simply said "I like your new hairstyle" while we were both in the supermarket and she seemed so pleased that I actually made contact with her. In fact SHE gave me her phone number after just a few seconds of us chatting without me even asking, so the moral of the story is you have to look for the signs then move in for the kill. If the vibes are right then the prey is putty in your hands, once you catch their eye the rest follows naturally. - submitted by mike in london

First of all, I would like to say I have learned a lot from this site. I came back to give you guys some of my advice that I have learned from life experiences. I'm not sure if these tips are already posted on here, but here goes anyway. The truth is height does play a role on pickin' up chicks. A lot of females prefer their guys to be at least 6 feet. It's superficial, but it's true. BUT, do not lose hope. I'm only 5'7" and have no problem getting my share of girls checking me out. Why you ask? Because it's all about how you carry yourself. GET INTO SHAPE YOU FAT ***! I was reading my sister's Cosmo magazine (yes, go ahead and laugh) and gotten some real good tips. It seems like there are a few things women like/notice about a guy. I can't remember all of them, but they were: lips, shoulder, chest, forearm, hands, abs, and buns. So for all you people who are my height or shorter, don't worry you still have a chance. Like I said: GET INTO SHAPE YOU FAT ***! It will increase your confidence. trust me. If you want to get drastic, you can always join the Marines. Women love their uniform. =) P.S. Get rid of that unibrow (if you have one), and always take care of your face; zits are one of a player's worst enemy. Good luck and happy hunting. - submitted by Big Wang

How you guys doing out there, hopefully having tons and tons of success picking-up. Anyway, what I want to talk about today is a little psychological technique better known as mirroring. First, what if I were to tell you that what Obi Wan Kenobi's force mind control trick was possible in real life? I'd hope you'd say that I'm full of shit, yet there is something you can take away from the Jedi Master. Granted, you might not be able to get a girl to become your slave, but mirroring has effects on both the psychological and physiological levels. Next time your out with a hot girl, take note of small attributes about her: how fast she is breathing, how fast she is talking, her overall demeanor. What you have to do is try and match yourself to her. Now don't make this look un-natural, it is somewhat easy to get caught if you aren't a little bit careful. She'll subconsciously pick up on what your doing with the net effect being a subconscious increase in rapport (which is a good thing). This technique works perfectly with pacing. You can start out in her state, and then slowly transition back to your own. When applying this technique at first, just try and mimic one or to traits, otherwise you'll get in over your head. Slowly but surely, you won't even have to think consciously about the technique, maybe you'll even get it down so well that Obi Wan Kenobi will become jealous because his ole' ass ain't gettin fly bitches. - submitted by Rich'sDaShit

To all you playas in training, it's true about the "axe" cologne spray. Trust me I'm a female and when i smelled this cologne an a guy the hairs on the back of my neck stood up. In the past I wasn't interested in this guy, but now since I received the "axe" effect, I can't stop thinking about him. The pheromones in this spray really work, and I'm not the only one who feels this way. While in a club fellas screw the $30 bottle of cologne, get a $5 can and watch what you reel in. - submitted by Almondjoy

Ok I saw this in a movie and then tried it and it really worked. When at a party, bar, nightclub, or where ever people are dancing look around for the worst looking girl you can find and ask her to dance. Now she will say yes if she is really not that great looking because I doubt many guys ask her to dance. When you begin to dance with her look around at the women that glance at you and take note of it. After the dance find your way away from her and go talk to the women that looked at you if they don't talk to you first. Why? Well because now the women think you are a guy that does not a care about looks and that makes them want to get to know you better. Yes, this is mean to the not good looking girl. - submitted by Mr.NiceGuy

This is a tip that works, The main job I have, all the other workers are blokes so if you go out on an evening with them, theres a large group of fellas, I used to get nowhere with the women on these evenings so I got a part time job as barman (not one of those smoky old fashioned pubs though !), You can cherry pick as they are not on guard as you've got a reason to be there that isn't solely to pick up. Easy to get chatting to them also ! Works a treat this. An earlier tip you had to know if a woman fancies you is after the first couple of times you've chatted to her, if she starts to hang round you but is awkward in your presence, sort of tongue tied she definitely fancies you. - submitted by Mark

A truly top tip! If you are a nervous sort around women and find it difficult to chat to some chick you like then there's only one thing you can do. Talk! Talk to every single woman you can. Talk to women at work, in the street, on the train, everywhere. You don't have to start conversations, just get used to talking to them by saying "hi" or something. Once you can talk to any woman, you'll find it easier to talk to your potential conquests. Like it's said, practice makes perfect. - submitted by -CoLdShIvA-

Are you having someone over and want to put them under your "spell"... Just play them a song on a guitar.. I'm not joking.. Its almost like they go into a trance or something cause it works better than ANYTHING.. If you can't play the guitar.. LEARN! - submitted by Zach

There are a lot of ways to see if a girl likes you, like stares. But what people don't know is that if a girl is around a guy she is with and finds you attractive she is going to try not to look at you at ALL(except for glances when her mate isn't looking).This is either really bad or really good! Call her bluff by walking up to her or her mate and start a conversation, if she looks at you and smiles you know she's been digging you the whole time, if she doesn't smile at you then that means shes been looking at you starring at her all night and thats why she was looking at you. Girls try to act like they aren't interested in anything in the room when they know whats really going on in their heads. Basically "trying to play it cool". - submitted by Skippimperton

If you wanna win a chick over, a good thing to do is to be really nice to her MOTHER and help her out if she needs any, basically just be polite to her. So the chick will probably most likely talk to her mother: like they do. The mother will score points for you to the chick and the chick will most likely like you if her mother does. My fellow players say buy a rose for their mother, but I wouldn't. - submitted by Flash

Let's talk about cars. This is something very important to the player. What you drive says a lot to women. All things being equal if a women sees you pull up at the club in a 84 Toyota Corolla your chances just got a lot harder than the guy who pulled in behind you to valet his Hummer H2. I'm in the car business, but not a salesman. Here's what I've learned. Foreign cars are in. Especially upper end cars. BMW, Lexus, Infiniti, Porsche etc. What most guys don't know is that you can buy a car thats two years old, looks like a new one and you can save $$$. I saw a Porsche Boxster for $25,000 the other day. My point is that even if you don t have a million bucks drive a set of wheels that says you do! Some other tips. Keep your car clean!!! Wash it and have it cleaned before a date. Also don't obsess about your wheels, don't brag. Act like its just a car. This will blow them away. Yeah I drive a Benz. Women want the finer things in life. By driving something nice it says a lot about you to the ladies. Good luck out there. - submitted by dfwaviator

BEWARE OF CAR HOPPERS, SOME WOMEN LOVE TO USE YOU FOR YOUR MONEY AND YOUR CAR TO TRAVEL IN. So TO PREVENT IT from happening try not to dish out more than you can bare. Like buying her lots of jewelry or stuff. Remember that you are the player. If you do buy lots of stuff you will be getting played. Some women are what I call women players, so be careful. - submitted by Michael jones

If your out and about don't bother with a chat up line or try and be smart, I've never found they work, if shes looking at you look at her look away then look at her again, if shes still looking just say Hi then start a conversation if its a gym say you've just joined to break the ice or if its in your street you can say you live in a house down the road etc, just a line to break the ice to get her chatting. you can take it from there and decide if you want to ask her out. The only times I've had any success in clubs is if theres been me and one friend chatting to two girls, when I've been with a large group of fellas I've never got anywhere. I suppose all the players know the one about carrying a lighter even if you don't smoke as some women that like the look of you will ask for a light as an excuse to start talking. If you spotted a girl in a club early on who was looking at you and you didn't approach there and then, don't bother later after having a few drinks (or being half drunk !) , chances are you'll be wasting your time. - submitted by Mark

Listen up, I've been playin' for a good long time now and I finally met the perfect girl. So, now that I'm settled, I can take the time to help a few of you out. I wanna let you all in on a "confidence/attractive builder" as I like to call it. First and foremost you MUST be aware that in order to meet and attract women you NEED TO HAVE CONFIDENCE. There is nothing that women find more attractive than a guy who is full of confidence, now I'm not talkin' bout cocky, there is a fine line between being sure of yourself and being full of yourself. Simply put, confidence gets the girl.

WALK THIS WAY
In my experience women first look at how you dress and then at how you WALK. Your stride? Slow down. Confident people are not in a hurry but there is a difference between wandering and walking with purpose. Always walk as if you know what your doing and where your going. Practice keeping your shoulders back and your chest out, good posture basically. So not only will you look and feel confident but you'll also look physically bigger and more predominant. I'll send in more of my personal tips later. - submitted by Scaz

I am going to make a point on a thing the player said. If you want to become a player, you need to observe and carefully study the players that you know. Become friends with them and watch their every move. It's worked for me. This is a point that I cannot stress enough. - submitted by George

Pick up lines? Don't need em. What works well is a simple smile and a simple 'Hi' - this easy opener allows you to do a quick assessment of the woman. Did she smile and return your greeting? If so, keep the ball rolling - ask 'Are you having a good time'? Agree with her, no matter what the answer. (yes = "So am I...now". No = "Neither am I...but things are getting better...now"). If she returns your greeting with a snarl or snide remark, just respond with "Whoa, sorry...I was only trying to say hello...I will leave you to your bad mood" - and turn (not walk) away. If she's a nasty bitch, she will move on.(And save you time and trouble chasing a buzzkill female) If you just caught her in an off mood, she may feel bad about snapping at you, and initiate conversation by apology. Simple and powerful...try it and you will always have an easy way to initiate contact. - submitted by AlphaWolf

Push and pull, players. You see most guys believe that they can make a women attracted to them by (Flowers, Candy, ect..). But these are often mistakes, you cant "Make" someone attracted to you, even seduction takes place in the "Don't give a damn" mentality. Now, Push and pull, think about it, if you show up a woman's place a half-hour early with roses and chocolate, ever wonder why you never go out with her again? This is a "Push", let me explain: a push is an overbearing act that turns women off, and a pull is an action that attracts a woman, now back to the common problem. You do something lame that turns her off, she thinks your a dork or worse a "nice guy". How could you have handled this differently? You could have shown up a couple minutes late to show your a busy man after all; PULL (Not too late or you come off like a inconsiderate jerk; PUSH) then just said "Sorry I had something to do, but not as important as you", she will probably smile then work a little of that masculine charm and your in. There you go many variants of this can be used in different situations for different results. Keep it going players. - submitted by Neo

If you see a woman who you were interested in the past but for whatever reason you didn't get in her knickers, if you happen to come across her again and would still like to "deflower" her here is a tip. In the middle of the small talk stare at her like you are in a trance when she comments and says something like "What's wrong with you" say "I can see why you USED to be the woman in wanted to sleep with more than any other but YOU had YOUR chance and that window of opportunity is closed for YOU now". THEN SNAP OUT OF THE TRANCE IMMEDIATELY. Like all children who are told they cant have something they will try to get it. The key to this working is you have to be very matter of fact about it and really make her believe that she just missed out on the opportunity of a lifetime and you are going to give this to another woman now. - submitted by Daddy Hungus

The added bonus of the lip-reading conversation tip, is that you have to keep looking at her face and that makes her feel as if you are paying more attention. Great ego booster for the girl, great in-road for the player! - submitted by CoLdShIvA

What up playas. If your already kissing a girl but they arent willing to come back to your place yet I have a couple of tips to make them go madly horny for you. First you suck on their ears, girls love it and also get something from it. The second and the best thing to do is to kiss her down her neck then lick her collar bone. I really don't know why they get all horny from that but they do. Do that and you will surely get laid. Peace out playas. - submitted by Big Playa F

One fundamental difference between men and women: Women like the new and unknown, men like to work at things and have familiar and comfortable things in their surroundings and life. Basically, a woman will go for a new face in a bar/office and go for the new guy rather than the known, familiar faces. When you enter into a new place take full advantage of this. Make an impact on your first meeting. If a new guy enters your hunting grounds then you will have to push your work rate higher and be more interesting to the girls around you than the mysterious new stranger. - submitted by CoLdShIvA

Regarding flattery. One of the simplest forms of flattery that will work with women of all levels of babe-ness is to simply tell her she has really good taste in clothes. Women spend an innordinate amount of time searching for just the right clothes and they enjoy being told that they have done it right. This form of flattery not only tells her that she has good taste but also tells her that she looks good. Two for the price of one! Warning: Don't overdo it! Don't say she has great or fantastic taste in clothes or she'll smell a rat. Keep it simple! - submitted by CoLdShIvA

Okay, I have a couple tips... First if you want to kiss a girl, or start to make out with her, or start fooling around a trick you can use is called the boredom trick. All you have to do is say "Are you bored" and if she says yes you say "well, I can make it interesting" and it's a great opener for trying to start kissing her. I know this doesn't always work, but I thought it was a good technique. Another thing I haven't heard much on is the scent of your deodorant and soap and shampoo. I have been asked numerous times what kind of cologne I am wearing simply because of my deodorant, and they love it, it's called Cool Blast by Arm & Hammer. Also a good smelling soap is Dial body wash Spring Water and Head & Shoulders Ultimate Clean. Those are all great smelling products that the ladies love. And one last thing, It is in your best interest to use Gel over Wax in your hair, simply because wax makes your hair look greasy, unless you use tiny bits of wax to make bits of! your hair stand up (the dry look) but I would say gel is best. Peace out playas! - submitted by Simmy

Great Site!!! I can not put enough emphasis on being busy! Just not toooo busy! This has worked for me maybe 90% of the time. Girls are intrigued by it. They think you know where you going, not lazy,and are probably meeting other women and that turns them on more than it turns em off. (competition)Unless it's a chick that thinks you're a player and she's not into that, but many don't care or think it's kinda hot. Most of them think you have something good going on. I might mention that I have to see somebody later. They usually want to know who.....guess why?!?! This worked well when I lived in England, Taiwan and 6 months in San Diego. Worked with babes 19 to 34! I would call the babe and wait a few days and they'd call back 90% of the time curious and wondering why they had not heard from me. Then we'd meet. If you get her digits use this it does work! She'll want you more! - submitted by Dondi181

Remember distance can make the heart grow fonder. If the honey you are feeling is suddenly giving the cold shoulder make moves to other sites for a while almost always when you come back the attraction will be doubled plus if you meet someone else you got two for the price of one. - submitted by Maddknocker

The one thing that I cant stress enough is that you need to be friends with as many women as possible. It is also good to have a lot of male friends too, because people gossip. If you just try to be friends with all girls, what happens when the girls ask their guy friends about you? Guys tend to rip each other apart when they don't even know you or don't like you. - submitted by Diggler

A huge problem for a lot of guys is getting overly excited when looking at hot girls, this affects the way you act and the things you say. You can't blame yourself after all, it's your natural instinct. However, I've found a way to get around this a bit, it's quite simple :
Download several pictures of hot girls off the net(not porn), I suggest you download really hot models of the types of girls you like the most, close-ups on the face, or something where you can clearly see the girls' eyes. Now, cycle through the pictures, and practice staring them in the eyes without instantly feeling attracted or aroused. Practice looking at the girls objectively, practice not caring about their physical features. Disconnect yourself.
Do this for a few minutes everyday :) It works. The point is to get yourself used to seeing extremely beautiful women, so you can comfortable approach and talk to them. Much like porn/model photographers, you have to start getting used to the idea of talking/seeing beautiful women in front of you, and focus on the most important part "the game".
Also helps if you practice your "game smile" at the same time :) - submitted by Kacper

I go to this dance club on the weekends with my friends. I'm not much of a dancer, but I do occasionally. Most times, I talk to my friends. When they go dance, I sit back quietly, and I swear this works, girls come up to me and ask why I'm not dancing. This is a good way to start up a conversation with her. The rest is up to you. - submitted by Rick

Sup playaz.. my girl just hooked me up with the web address, and I gotta say... y'all know what your writing bout.. I gotta agree with most of the stuff in here. I'm hot chic.. sexy and love my self as much as I love guys who got game. One tip is when your talking to us ladies, don't sound too desperate or too obvious. I can't handle a wussy type of man.. if I give you attitude, give me back a bit.. don't try and suck up, cause trust me, ladies do use this and do you wrong in little ways, that y'all don't notice.. ladies are tapping into your game plan so y'all gotta get it on with theirs, cause only the fittest survive. - submitted by freakygal2g

Before going on a date, check out the restaurant you are going to bring your date/girl the night before or two days prior and familiarize yourself with the menu. You can eat in and observed. Be particularly friendly with the waiter and some of the staff. Before leaving give a tip to the waiter. When you bring your date, she will be surprise how well you know the menu without even looking at it and how friendly the staff with you. - submitted by cris

An awesome scent that you can wear during the day time or when in a casual setting around friends that will drive most women crazy is the scent Phoenix from Axe (the body spray for men). Believe it or not, but I have received more attention from the ladies from this little $5 dollar bottle than from $30-$50 bottles of cologne. Cologne does have it's purpose, but if you really want to drive women mad, it would be good measure to were the body spray as well. Those commercials are not exaggerating either! - submitted by Simon

When going on a date to a restaurant, take her to a place that prepares the food in front of you. Something like Benny Hannahs. This way you have entertainment and you do not have to think of things to say. You will also have something to talk about after. Chicks love it, and its probably more fun than the place they went with the last guy. - submitted by Big Shooter

Here's a little trick for you if you want to increase your sex appeal and overall character. If your at a bar or somewhere else with lots of ladies present, start talking about some girl you met, then have your buddy ask you the famous line, (pretty loudly) "Is she hot?" and say, "Not that it would matter but yes, she's attractive" whatever ladies are listening in on your conversation, their opinions of you will shoot through the roof and make them more open to a conversation with you and maybe more... - submitted by Scaz

It's been my experience that women really do love men that have strong, soft, clean hands. The best thing you can do for yourself in the department is to go out and get a manicure. Yes, I said it, a manicure. For two reasons, 1) you come out having great looking hands and finger nails (which women love) and 2)There are a lot of attractive women at the nail shops that you can definitely get your game on with. Bonus reason, the massage the girl gives your hand afterwards feels really good and if she's a cutie, double points! To maintain your soft hands (easier I suppose if you have a white collared job than a blue collared) I recommend using Juniper Breeze Body Cream from Bath & Body Works. It has a pleasant fresh shower scent that won't interfere with your cologne. Apparently, there are a lot of women out there buying this body cream for there men, so the sales lady told me. - submitted by Simon

Sup playas when going for that older hunnie just be honest and tell it like it is. Most older women like guys who can take control of the situation so be like me tell her the truth if you want to fuck her tell her that and sometimes she might go for that and you'll get what you want. - submitted by James Whiting

When approaching women always think you are the coolest guy in the room. Always act FUN but RESPECTABLE, women want to respect a man, it's female nature to want respectable confident men: "A woman with no respect for a man is the equivalent of a man with no physical attraction for a woman." - submitted by Matt

The sideglance is one of the parts of bodylanguage that many people still dont know. What it is, is when say a girl is infront of you, to look behind her she will look at the side but forwards and she can still see if your looking at her in the corner of her eye. - submitted by Flash

Always carry a brush (to keep hair inline), lip balm (females are turned off to ashy white chapped lips) and gum or mints (ladies never forget clean smelling breath).Oh last but not least a PEN. Notice how I capitalized PEN, never a pencil. Females love a good expensive looking pen.They often want use it maybe to even give you her number... - submitted by John B.

What works great is if you wear some air force ones with a nice pair of fadded blued jeans and a shirt that brings out the color of your eyes to make the girls think your eyes are the best in the world and wear some GIO she will think your the most cleanest and best dressed person. - submitted by Playa

The best way I've learned to relax before a date is to pump some iron. I always plan my dates around my workouts because the testosterone is flowing big time at the end of a workout, plus women love huge guys. - submitted by E-man

Go up to a girl and praise her, but using really vague words, like 'interesting' when describing her clothes, she'll always want to find out exactly what you mean, which gives you an excellent ice breaker! - submitted by Flasha

Here are some tips for conversations. 1. Use big words. Go out and read more, expand your vocabulary. Girls really like that. 2. Don't say things you are not sure of, or use words that you don't know the meaning to. Nothing hurts your game more than saying something totally stupid! - submitted by RL

Congratulations on the site dawg. Definitely amazing. I fully enjoyed it (yesterday was the first time) and I must admit I have actually used many of the tricks you have here. Being a foreigner (Albania, near Greece and Italy - work here) I have noticed that American women are very attracted to traveling (besides accents). So if you have ever been anywhere you can use that to your advantage to bulk up the conversations. It never fails because they ALL want to go visit somewhere. Just some food for thought though. And another thing, I fully like the K-swiss but I wanna suggest something more European style as well on the shoes. A pair of square toes with some nice slacks will make you look really fly. - submitted by Armand

First of all, I checked out this entire site and it is full of good stuff. But one thing it lacks is how to help guys calm down when they're nervous trying to get a girl. Some things I find helpful to prepare yourself are to breathe slowly/deeply, visualize success, smile and yawn. Breathing and visualizing help slow your heart beat to calm you down, while smiling and yawning convince your body that there is no risk and it should be calm. The latter two suggestions may seem crazy, but they do work to some extent. Try them out for yourselves! - submitted by ID Man

When talking to a girl, do not talk very loud, when you are a club or bar. any place that is loud. talk mellow and slow. First tip: when you are at a loud place getting to know a girl. Always whisper to her ear let her know you are interested Second Tip: next move, When you are whispering, This is what you should move your body position to the behind her while whispering to her making her laugh. Lean your body toward her body. Don't make it obvious or you will be rejected. If she leans back. You made progress. - submitted by joey

Instead of buying a gift for the girl you like, try this tip that will save you money and be very effective: Learn a little french, now buy her a card put "Je t'adore" (I love you), on the inside. Women love romantic french words especially when you show that you gave your time for her to learn love words. - submitted by theplayaways **Edited by by Al

One of the best ways I have had in meeting women has been through running my own singles events group. Running events each week and placing ads in the classifieds in the singles events section, has meant that I've met women whom otherwise would have been hard to find. What's more, they call me and get to know me via the events. Being lonely is impossible. What's more I can get paid meeting women as my events are profitable, and go to top dinning establishments for free with my little business. - submitted by David Newton www.events4singles.com

This site is gold and I should know... I'm a lady. This may sound like an ad but The Player knows what he's talking about. Now for the tip: this may sound obvious but when women are interested, they linger. No interested woman is in a hurry to leave. She'll stand there all day if she has to. We just want to be around the one we like. We'll find any excuse to bask in your fine-ness. So if some girl won't leave, give her something to do--TALK TO HER! - submitted by The Informant

Smile your way into her pants : Some people have a great smile and know how to use it. I am one of those people. I think taking care of your teeth and breath is one of the most important things for appearance and overall health. I have used my smile to pick up well known actresses and girls who have their own millions. I have used my smile to increase my own bank account and receive gifts of both a personal and monetary nature. One must also keep the eyes wide and bright as too big a smile can give you squinty eyes. - submitted by James Lara

Try this, fellow players. When you come up to a hot babe, ask her "Hey I am just wondering something, have you ever done any modeling?" After you say that she will reply with a yes or a no. Then say, "Ya, you definitely look like you could be a model." Then they will usually blush or laugh or sometimes even do both. Then say, "I am also wondering if you might be interested in this. I know a friend of mine who does photo shoots for a living. Do you think you might be interested?" Then she will reply with a yes or a no. If she says yes, then say, "Well, do you have a number I can reach you at?" She will then reply with a yes or a no. After you get her number, or she might ask you for your number, the rest is up to you but if she says no then say, "Well, I'm sorry to bother you." and walk away with the upmost confidence, head held high... it's her loss not yours. - submitted by Ben J.

This is how to get a woman interested in you. Simply approach her and tell her that she is pretty, but leave it at that. Don't try to get her number or name, just leave it at that. She will then find you favorable in her mind and will look upon you as a real man who knows how to make a womans day. The next time that you see her, approach again and spark a conversation, this time asking for her number, which she will be more than happy to give you. It works trust me. - submitted by LO

Whenever your talking to a girl and she says that she has a boyfriend, most guys would say oh well and take off, but you should answer with "Whats wrong with having a friend?", so you get her number as friends and then work your ways up. Works for me. - submitted by theplayaways

So you are sitting there in class listening to the teacher babble on about useless crap. But today, you just happen to be sitting next to a fine specimen of the female race. So since the teacher is babbling on, or maybe there are people around you don't want busting your balls if you get shot down, break it down old school style and surprise the hell out of the girl. Pick out a blank page on your notebook and write down a simple message: "Hi, my name is (your name). I'd like to take you out for a cup of coffee." She'll love it and think it is cute as hell. It is like being back in 2nd grade writing notes to your little girlfriend. All you are missing is the "yes" and "no" for her to circle. You DON'T want it to be a yes or no answer, so she can't answer with a simple no. OKAY will most likely be her answer and you are in there like swim wear. - submitted by PlayaB

When talking to a babe in a club standing next to her make sure to gently move one arm to her lower side opposite to yourself. Then gently rub her side. Women usually enjoy physical affection very much and she will be aroused making her more eager to get things going. Just continue talking, usually easily comprehensible small talk is best, and get a little more bold at time goes by. After a while you should be able to kiss her. - submitted by SilverSurfer

When you see a hot babe, go up to her and use an icebreaker first. Then ask her what her name is.. for example: If she says, "My name is Anne". In return you reply "Man that is beautiful name, it suits you well." By doing this you will make them smile every time, and a lot of times they will say thank you and blush toward your response. - submitted by Ben J.

I think the main ingredient in becoming a player is making a lot of female friends and remembering their names. Reason: women always gossip... it's that simple!! The more that females see you saying "hi" to other females, the more they are going to start to wonder and question about who you are. Also, always stand out from your crew/crowd; through clothes/style/shoes/belt etc. be a leader not a follower. In other words, be BOLD!! Just my opinion and from what I've experienced. - submitted by DZINERLUV

When on a date with a female, earn points and save yourself some money by avoiding dinner. The trick is to stop and pump gas immediately after you pick her up. When you go inside and pay, buy her a chocolate bar and surprise her with it. A female will almost always like chocolate so you score points for that, but the main reason you do this is so that her stomach gets full and she will not want dinner that night. I find that snickers, twix and M&M's, are great hunger satisfiers. Try it and you'll be amazed at the amount of money you will save yourself. And if this doesn't work, maybe your girl is eating a little too much. - submitted by tHE gREAT fONZINO **Note by The Player: Another good side to this trick is that chocolate is a mild aphrodisiac... so you may even get laid for "being cheap" :) This smooth-ass tip is one of the best ever submitted! Props to Fonzino.

This may help a lot of guys who are new to body language! I've observed and verified that a lot of girls who already have boyfriends actually display the same kind of body language (similar to a single girl attracted to a guy). The signs can be: 1)dilated pupils, 2)prolonged eye-contact, 3)twisting or playing with her hair, 4)smiling. DON'T FALL FOR THIS TRICK ! These already "booked" girls are just trying to have fun when their BF's are not around, and they may not be serious. A girl is serious ONLY when she shows the above mentioned four body language signs plus the signs described below. They are: 5)Revealing the inside of her palms or hands, 6)blushing or skin tone turning red when you stare back at her or catch her staring at you, 7)Staying away from her group or trying to be alone to give you a chance to approach her, 8)Always trying to be seen by you. If the girl that you like displays both the first four and the Last four body signs, then boy you are in luck! congrats! - submitted by tatva

This may sound like a no brainer, but your chances of kissing her are very slim if she thinks you have nasty lips. Use chap stick (especially if you work outside a lot). You wont believe the number of girls that are turned off by nasty chapped lips. Blistex has this new chap stick out called Clear Advance, its made for men and doesn't leave a gloss on your lips. Trust me, it's good stuff. - submitted by PIMPNZ

If you want a lady, be a little mean to her at first. Trust me, it sounds like a crock of shit, but it actually works pretty well. The one thing that a woman wants more than anything is something that she can't have. The biggest key to this is to let her know that you are being playful with her, and if she doesn't seem to like it, try a different approach. If you are a little rude to her, then she is going to have to work for it. Then you will know if she is worth looking into for a possible future. Play a little rough with her. Women don't like a soft kind of man all the time. When the time is right, obviously, let the romance flow, but when you are first getting to know her, be a little rough with her and see if she is worth it. You can't be sweet all the time. - submitted by ditka

I have a couple of suggestions for increasing your pimpin' profile. Come through with the Gucci G belt and wear it on the Cognac color side with Steve Madden "Flemmings" in the cognac color leather for your feet. Serving any girl with that combo guarantees a knockout with a one two punch, without even spilling an ounce of game. Next for the cologne the two best on the market today are Bvlgari and Dolce and Gabbana. I suggest carrying a small bottle on you when you're clubbin' and make sure to put some directly behind your ears. When a babe is trying to yell in your ear over the music the two above cologne's will leave a lasting impression. - submitted by Pimp C

This is a technique called the "honest position". This will make the girl that you are trying to get with believe every word you say. (This is while you are siting down) First, put your heels together. Next, spread your legs apart about a foot. Then shrug your shoulders up a bit. Keep the palms of your hands slightly facing her. Keep eye contact always. This position shows you are being honest with her (even if you are not). She should believe just about everything that you say. - submitted by Mike Smith

I am very impressed with this web site and the very useful tips it has to offer. I have nothing very spectacular to submit here but I believe it is one of the single most important rules if you are going to be a player. You got to have the "I don't really care" attitude, and if you get rejected by a broad don't dwell on it because it was her loss, you just got to keep moving on and keep knowing that your the shit. Also another thing, there is no denying that everyone talks to themselves. Keep in mind that when you talk to yourself don't talk bad about yourself because you literally beat yourself up. You will destroy your confidence, self talk should always be positive. In order to always look confident which is very important here are a few tips; wherever you go, take up a lot of space. What I mean is stand with your legs at least shoulder width apart, throw your shoulders back a little, always look straight or above but NEVER at the floor. Your eye contact should be steady and make it a habit not to blink! When you speak let your voice come from your gut not your throat and put life into everything you say. Also don't speak at a high rate, it's easier to think when you speak slower and it shows more self control and discipline. Oh yea, don't forget to SMILE ;) - submitted by BIG WILLY WHITE SHOES

I use all those colognes you use, and they work great. But I had 1 more that works awesome. Lucky Brand-Lucky You. It is good because it's not overpowering and smells clean, I have gotten only positive results. One VERY fine girl told me it reminded her of the time she went overseas. I don't know how that works. But its awesome, definitely in my rotation. - submitted by Little Pimp

I found a little secret that works on the hizos every time. Before you go out splash on some AquaVelva. Yea, you heard right, AquaVelva! But before you splash the AquaVelva on, pour it in a small glass and microwave for 2 minutes on high. This releases some kind of aroma that drives them hizos crazy. You will walk into the club and all the fine women will be talking to each other and pointing to you. Works Every time! - submitted by Little PimP

I have a few ideas also I would like to add: 1. I was at a strip club a year ago and when the dancer was putting her body in my face every part smelled great. I asked how she was able to smell so good all over and she told me to buy body wash for what ever cologne I use. I did and EVERYONE who I have been with since has loved it. 2. Get a nice wallet that will hold a key in it. You will no longer have that bulge of keys in your front pocket when you go out because you can leave all you keys in you car and have the spare in your wallet.You will also not get locket out any more. - submitted by Jason T. S.

A very important approach to take is to make friends with the friends of the girl that you are trying to get with. Hang out with her friends and talk to them because they will talk about you to her (ALL girls talk) and the more she hears about you from them, the better chance you have with her. Just be a little careful to make sure they don't get the impression that you like them, because then the girl your trying to get with may feel obligated to not get involved with you because her friend(s) like you. - submitted by Pixel Kid

Players, I've found a cologne that gets me compliments over and over and over again. The other day I was over at a friend's house and this beautiful girl, Akasha, walks in. She said, "ooooh...something smells good...who is wearing cologne." I was the only one and she smelled my neck... and smiled. The rest is history as they say. You HAVE to get some of this, it's called "Very Sexy" by Victorias Secret. Just go to the store and get it, TRUST ME - submitted by Daniel

Hello all you fellow players out there. Thought I might contribute to this great resource of player knowledge by sending a tip of my own. Here it is: ALWAYS BE COURTEOUS TO THE LADIES. Women love men who know how to act in public. The greatest example that I use all the time is just holding a door open for them when they walk through. They love it and it works every time. - submitted by PurePlayerPro

When with a girl and a chump comes up and tries to work his game on your chick (cock blocking)... you're gonna have to have a way to disarm him without coming off as insecure to your girl. The way to do this is what I call a "reverse cock block". It works as follows. First, you need to wait for the chump to walk away. Immediately there after, smile at her and in a complimentary and almost genuinely surprised voice, say "Wow, did you see what you did to him?!" She will immediately respond with a "no" and maybe even smile and chuckle a bit. You then say "You really had him working to talk to you... wow... you really must have his attention to had gotten him so nervous around you." She'll then be at least partially convinced that you are on to something. She will reply with a "really?" and even if she doesn't... keep going. Respond with "Yea, you were talking to him and it was almost like I could hear his voice wanting to say (say the following in a ! high pitched, geeky tone) you're sooooooo pretty... I really like you... will you come home with me so we can play Dungeons and Dragons in my parent's basement... wow... you're not like the other girls, I don't have to pay you to talk to me." and continue as such. If she has any sort of sense of humor, she will laugh and think that what you're saying is a riot. This allows her to see that guy and immediately recall that high pitched geek voice coming from him whenever he swings around! Problem solved and you come off like the confident playa that you are. A word of caution... do not use on a guy who she is obviously not attracted to in any other way than a friend. The painter with a talent for hair dressing is not the guy to run this on! - submitted by Anakin

After you've been talking to a hottie for a while and know for a fact that she's interested (i.e. touching you when she speaks, playing with her hair, etc.), look at her in the eyes and say "Let's get something out of the way". She'll ask what, then kiss her. After you kiss her, simply explain that you wanted to go ahead with your first kiss because you didn't want it to be awkward later on. It's never failed me. - submitted by Mike J.

I've found that when once you have approached a girl, always lock into her eyes. Do not look away because this will give her the impression of timidity or unsureness about yourself. When you gaze at her directly in the eyes it tells her that you are interested and in control, not her. You are running the show and you are more confident than everyone else in the club. Then give a smirk, tilt your head back a little and continue conversation with her. Always works - submitted by Bandit

Whenever a girl thinks that you look good and would like you to come over and talk to her, most will tend to adjust themselves, for example: their hair, jewelry, dress, purse. Apparently they are trying to make themselves presentable to you or something. In addition most girls usually adjust their hair, I've noticed this when I was talking to some girls. Just thought you would like to know... - submitted by FINE ASS LOOKIN STR8 MAN

The Lone Wolf - When you and your buddies are the club it is natural to want to hunt in a pack. This intimidates most women, who are usually in a pack as well. Tell your buddies your going to take a piss and hang out by yourself. This will not feel natural, and your right, everyone will notice that your hanging by yourself, where as they probably wouldn't have noticed before. And if your not stank nasty, a girl who may be interested will find it easier to approach you than if you were with your buds. Take it from a playa! If you can! - submitted by International Playa

Here is a quick and interesting way to catch a girl's attention: Walk straight up to the girl flipping a coin and say heads you give me your number tails I give you mine. You are guaranteed that she will smile and that's when you start talking! Use this especially when she's with her friends. - submitted by comfort mbaserah

My best tip: Drop your PRIDE, don't be afraid of some pussy... you got remember that the WORST thing that could happen is getting rejected, no one can make fun of you because they were too scared to even go up to her. Think positive and be friendly... it's hard to reject someone who is being friendly. I like to start out with "HEY do you remember ME??", and when she says I don't think so, follow up with "Well you will after today." and start into a conversation ASAP. Good luck - submitted by Tyson

I've found this to be the easiest way to start a conversation with ANY girl, it's quite simple: When your friends "attack" a group of girls. separate yourself from the group and say to the girl that you fancy (but in a way that it seems you are talking to all of the group) "Are this guys annoying you?, I'm afraid that they may have had too much to drink tonight" and smile. 99% of the time the girl will smile and say "no", but then you can start a conversation with her since she will think you are the leader of the group, as well as the most decent guy of all of them. - submitted by The Latin Lover

Another good tip for an intro and to check for instant interest is to : Hi, you look like (pause, then say) "amazing like someone I would like to know a little! what is your name?" See the point is make her think she may know you! she is curious now. Plus you ask for her name! And if she is really interested, she will ask for yours! - submitted by Allen S.

Always look into the females eyes when you are speaking to her, and like what the player said, remember to always smile. Repeat her name constantly during conversation, and try and remember the important details. Smile always I can't say anything more. If you got a good smile than abuse it, if you don't get BRACES. - submitted by Po'Pimp

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