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Approaches
Seduction articles Contents - Approaches techniques
Simple approaches - examples of various conversational approaches
The collision approach
The available chair approach
The familiar approach - act like you already know her
You look stunning approach - Ross Jeffries' classic
Should I buy her a drink? - No and why?
Should I ask for her name?
Leech off someone else's crash and burn
If you just have to use a pick-up line - they sucks
"I like..." game as an opener - you can use this one anywhere
Mr Smooth technique explained
The questions game - a shortcut to sex-talk and kissing
Simple approaches
How to find out if the guy in the group is the boyfriend of the one you want to seduct?
you could say,eg "Hi... my friend isn't from here (introduce friend)... so how do you guys know each other?" You can also use this to approach a larger group. "So how does everyone know everyone else?"
How
to approach girls in cafeterias?
Walk up from a direction where they can see you coming.Sit down while
you say something with a big smile and like you've known them your whole
life. It doesn't much matter what you say, but if you say something interesting
it makes it easier to continue the conversation
Make interesting conversation (use patterns if you know them) while mirroring them. Tell them a little bit about yourself then SMOOTHLY #close.
M: "So, How was you
day" (sit down)
H: "Good... how was yours" (This is a very typical response
if you were smooth with the intro).
M: "My day was awesome so far (try to match her outlook, if she looks
completely down try "pretty good").I had a great day at work,
and then one of my closest friends that I hadn't talked to in a while
called me. You know how you can just talk to someone and no how long it's
been you just _feel_ this great connection with them..."
H: "That's cool, I have a friend like that"
M: "Someone you can really trust, who always makes you feel good
to talk to?"
H: "Yeah, I've known her forever"
M: ...
H: ...
M: "I have to go, but I've really enjoyed this conversation, why
don't you give me your number and we can talk again"
"How was your day", pacing and rapport building. Anubis, ASF: "If there's nothing particularly interesting about the environment in which you find yourselves, the first sentence or two gives you the perfect opportunity to pace her (this is more what I'd be tempted to do at a party or some social gathering).
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Example 1
You walk across to her and,
genuinely interested, ask:
"So, how was your day?"
In a fraction of a second she flickers through the events of the day,
smiles, and says "Great!" Her smile is infectious and you find
yours matching it as you reply.
"Excellent! So was mine. What did you do?"
She's had a great day. You've had a great day. She feels a small (at this stage) degree of rapport and should have little problem sharing her good mood. This leads her into talking about what she did to have such a great day, a list of sentences in which you should find any number of conversational hooks to bite on.
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Example 2
You walk across to her and,
genuinely interested, ask:
"So, how was your day?"
In a fraction of a second she flickers through the events of the day,
sighs, and says "Awful." Her sadness is infectious and you feel
an empathic frown flow across your face as you ask "Oh, what happened?"
This then thereotically leads her into talking about what happened, and gives you the opportunity to show her that you can bring her from a pisspoor mood into a happy one. Hear her out. Whereas to fix up our bad moods we (i.e. men) usually look for solutions to the cause, women tend to share their feelings. Once she's unloaded the baggage, you've got rapport. Time to turn her mood around and get her happy. Not easy, but attainable.
Collision approach
By Rod Munch, mindlist:
How to approach a girl on the street?
you see a good looking girl walking down the street from a distance. Work it out so you accidentally get right in front of her and you both have to come to a screeching halt. Then, when she "Excuse me," or whatever, you say, "Oh, it's no problem. You would have stopped me in my tracks even if you weren't blocking my way!" Here she can either laugh or move on w/o comment. If she moves on, she either has a dull wit or no sense of humor, and in either case I don't want anything to do with her. If she laughs, you hit her with Ross's line (and I will admit this is a damn good one), "You know, it's good that you laughed, cuz it shows your mine is sharp and you have a good sense of humor, and I wanted to see if you had more going for you than just your looks.""
Then of course you continue with anything else (offer to meet over coffee, #close, run pattern, anything).
Available chair approach
How to approach girl at a outdoor cafe?
You walk up to one or more women who are sitting at one of these outdoor
cafe tables. Be sure you walk up to a group where there is a chair at
their table that isn't being used.
You then smile and say, "Hello, I was wondering if this chair was being used by anybody / I was wondering... is this chair available?"They'll say no / yes, the chair's available. They assume you need to borrow it for some table you'll be eating at. So after they answer you, give a big smile and plop yourself down in the chair with a relieved sigh. Then maybe say something like, "Boy, it sure feel good to sit down for a second. By the way, my name's Ben, how do you do?""
The familiar approach
Act like you already know her.try being friendly and humorous as you try this.
"You look strangely familiar. I swear I must have seen you somewhere. (pause). I can't remember yet. Let's switch it around. Do you HAVE THAT FEELING that you STRONGLY RECOGNIZE ME. Do you HAVE THAT FEELING NOW that I"M UNCANNILLY FAMILIAR.(?)"
Her (most likely response, if the principle works): "... yeah... I must have seen you from somewhere" You: "You want to sit down for a cup of coffee while we figure out why we feel so familiar with each other ?"
you look stunning approach
Ross Jeffries (adapted and updated):
"Forgive me for interrupting you" , I just wanted to tell you.....(pause 1 sec )I think you're absolutely stunning....and I really wanted to meet you. (Pause again)"
""My name's …...." I then extend my hand and shake theirs! Dont let go afterwards.If after 5-10 secs she didn't pull her hand away,she is interested in you and more intrigued by you.if not forget it proceed to next target.
How it works?
You are being direct, confident,low key.
Buying her a drink
Don't buy woman a drink. Why? women scorn and disrespect for supplicating men. An example
Her (thinking "Let's see if I can hook this sucker:)"):
"Will you buy me a drink?"You (thinking "Oh boy am I in
luck, this woman must like me, she's asking me to buy her a drink:)"):
"Sure!"Her (thinking "Ha! Another supplicating male to
buy me a drink just because I asked him. What a wimp. Do they really all
think I'm gonna go in bed with them for a bottle of beer? Jeez… I'll
take my drink and continue searching for a REAL MAN."): "Thanks!
You're so sweet! Bye now!:)"
You (confused): "Hey… wait! Um…?"
So what to actually do if she gives you a "Will you buy me a drink?". If she seems to be actually interested in you - you have been having a conversation for a while and she uses the "buy me a drink" to test you ("So does this guy like me enough to buy me a drink?") or she is approaching you with the intention getting to know to you and just happens to use the most popular AFC-line ("Can I buy you a drink?") reversed ("Will you buy me a drink?") to initiate a conversation - then explain to her, that it is not your principle to buy drinks to women, but she could buy YOU a drink:)
An example:
Her: "Will you buy me drink?"You: "No. But you can buy me a drink:)"Her (thinking "Argh… Gmph… He didn't supplicate! Could this be… a real man!? What's this, I'm getting wet!?"): "Am… um… Yes!"
If however she seems to be cruising, fishing for drinks and doesn't seem to care the least bit about you, telling her "No" would mean she'd just move on without listening to you any further and getting her drink from some chump eventually anyway. So you need to stop her cold in her tracks
Her: "Will you buy me a drink?"
You: "Give me a French kiss." "You aren't uptight are you?
Don't you go out to have fun? We're having fun!:)"
Should I ask for her name?
Forget it. why? you ask then if you forget the nxt time you meet her she would be pissed.If she's not interested in you, she'll forget your name in an instant.if she is interested she will automatic ask for it.
Leech off someone else's crash and burn
You see a guy hitting an a girl and stalling then failed to pick up the
girl " .You move in saying "That must have been one of the most
pathetic approaches I've ever seen". If She laugh you are in- she
has found someone who understands and share all the ridicule she has for
that poor guy. You are instantly in a heated discussion with her about
all the dumb approaches.She will drop all her shields, because out of
all people, you, having approached the way you did,
A variation of this - you see a guy hitting an a girl and she is obviously uncomfortable about it, maybe even to the point of disgust. But the guy is still staying - either the girl is just too sweet to tell him to f_ck off, or the guy is a true obnoxious a-hole. Or both. Either way, you move in. "Oh here you are! Christina darling, I've been looking all over for you! We had to be at Tanya's house like half an hour ago already, come on! (or whatever BS, you get the idea:)" If the guy looks at you with a big "What the f_uck!?!" face, say in a matter of fact voice and not even looking in his direction "'scuse me, this is my girlfriend". Now take the girls hand and pull her away. She is dumbfounded because you're are her saviour! She will most likely do anything for you.
If you just have to use a pick-up line
(Delivered rapid-fire fast!) Hi! Do you have
a boyfriend? Would you like a better one? Answer the second question first!
(To a woman in a tight outfit at a party or bar!) Hi! That's a great outfit
you're almost wearing!
Pardon me, I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I borrow yours?
Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.
"I like…" game as an opener
You can use this as either a continuation of a conversation or as an opener. It has the two of you say what you like in turn with you directing the "conversation" from things and known concepts (movies, music, food) to situations which create different feelings and states (standing in a warm summer rain, experiencing the thrills in an amusement park) to actual descriptions of states and feelings (feeling the excitement yet safety of a joy-ride:).
For example, seeing a girl in a record store in the dance music department, idly looking at records, you can start with "I like Prodigy". She'll look at you in confusion, as if trying to ask "…what?" or "…were you talking to me?". Never mind that, continue. "I like Prodigy, but I also like The Orb. Your turn:)". By now she has understood the point and will answer something like "Ok, well, I like The Chemical Brothers". Now you continue with another band, or switch to food or movies. If you say "I like The Matrix" after she said she liked the Chemical Brothers, this is obviously going to sound a little strange, so make it known to her by using a humorous tone that you know very well the switch was a little weird, but hey, you're just having fun and you're only inviting her to join:) She in turn might switch to food, follow her:)
But remember - you want to end up with describing feelings and states. With the "I like" game that is, not with the girl in general:) The "I like" game is not a means to an end, what you really want to end up with is getting her excited about you, getting her phone number, having a cup of coffee, doing a *close, showing her the heaven of complete sexual satisfaction - just take your pick:)
Mr Smooth technique
Act jolly, happy, goofy, "take it easy",
You might be ignored at first, don't give up before trying at least five minutes .stick to the girls as well, they'll start smiling and laughing.The moment the girls are comfortable with you, you casually take both their hands like no big deal and hold them while still talking and joking your mouth away:) The girls must be having a fun time with the two of you ALL THE TIME! If they're not smiling or laughing, make your act even more jolly (or stupid:). If the girls are leaving or going somewhere else, attach yourselves to them - they'll definitely feel awkward for a few moments in the beginning, but once you've gotten your act rolling, they won't want you to leave
The questions game
Originated by Mystery, provided by Craig, Clifford's Seduction newsletter:
Ask interesting qns to start for eg
You: "Let's play the question game."
Her: "What's the question game?"
You: "Well, it's like Truth or Dare but without the Dare, because I don't know how weird you are yet! The questions have to be good ones, no "where do you work" bullshit, ok? You go first!"
Her: "I can't think of anything!" You: "Ok, how many boyfriends have you had?"
From there the questions will get deeper and more sexual as the game goes along. Then after you have been playing for a few minutes, when it's your turn you can say
You: "I have a good question for you... Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "I don't know" You: "Let's find out!"
*kiss*
You: "I thought so!"
Don't go overboard with the sexual questions though. Asking even one of the above questions might do just fine, especially if she responds positively, which is your cue that she would also be ready for the final question
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